55 points that he's the one...

1) When he has the guts to tell you that he was unfaithful at one point during your relationship
(eventhough he needed the aid of a whole bottle of wine to oil the hinges of his jaws and loosen his tongue).

2) When he confesses of his upcoming fears of being tempted into leading to a recurring / possible repeat of point #1.

3) When he instantly becomes your hero by having his heart in the right place in coming out clean and open about everything.

4) When you know he's a real man by spilling his guts on point #1 & #2.

5) When he voluntarily makes his own choice to tell you point #1 & #2 by not taking the half-man route by keeping it secretly to his grave.

6) When you could still forgive him on point #1 & #2 eventhough you hurt like shit and wanted to bash him into a pulp.

7) When you don't press him for an apology for point #1 eventhough you can't understasnd how he could ever lose control of his other half of the anatomy at that time.

8) When you could close the chapter to point #1, and still say you love him by moving on to see a brighter future together after that.

9) When you allow your heart of hearts to digest point #1 & #2, and you are brave enough to tell him that you need time to heal the hurt.

10) When you are worried of the risks involving #2 and is confused to the ends of the earth, you still give your heart to him and allow him second chances.

11) When you will still wait faithfully and loyally for him to do all the necessary to solve point #2.

12) When he reassures you that point #1 will not happen again, and point #2 will be solved.

13) When you know he'll never betray you again deep down in the pit of pits of your heart.

14) When you give your trust to him to work things out to clean up the baggage #2.

15) When he proved to be brave by sticking his chest out to absorb all the bullets you pump into his chest when he told you points #1 & #2.

16) When you are not ashamed to tell him that you have cried buckets, lost two days' of sleep, and two days' of appetite for food, and filled your lungs with 3 packs of smoke.

17) When you have the courage to draw the line that you're going to cut him off if point #2 occurs in reality.

18) When you still do not hesitate to love him even when he could not find the right words to say in easing your pain on points #1 & #2.

19) When you still love him eventhough he is all thumbs and toes in dealing with your concerns, worries, duress and emotional upheavels due to points #1 & #2.

20) When you are willing and adamantly wanting to work things out for a better future with him in spite of hating yourself for it.

21) When he is still the most efficient, faithful and trustworthy man you've ever met in your life.

22) When you hurt like someone has cut your wrists and left you to die, after you've said you hate him for points #1 & #2.

23) When you realise that you need to love yourself too in order to survive and rebuild a future with him after hearing points #1 & #2, and have experienced loss of sleep, appetite and poisoned your lungs.

24) When he tells you that he will regret all his life if he loses you even after you have stressed him out.

25) When he drives you to the brink of insanity and the craziest rage ever, you will still, eventually calm down later and say that you still love him.

26) When he is still your super hero eventhough he's no action-packed movie hero, no romantic hero and a far cry from being a comic hero too like Superman or Spiderman.

27) When he gathers his courage and he says without pausing that he doesn't want to lose you and do a clean up act to let go of a past baggage.

28) When he says he loves you and even talked about you to a neighbour.

29) When you are not interested in any man by turning down their offers, as you only want him.

30) When you couldn't take your eyes off him and sigh like you've just caught glimpses of your idol eventhough he has no drop-dead-gorgeous resemblances to Mel Gibson or Robert Redford.

31) When both of you take big sniffs of each other at any time of the day with or without showering, and still loving it like it's the best thing you've ever smelled.

32) When you are not even worried about your morning breath, and neither are you worried about his when you wake up next to each other, and still find the kisses intoxicatingly sweet and refreshing.

33) When his voice is like music to your ears.

34) When you think of each other all the time.

35) When both of you know that you are not perfect, and are packed with idiosyncracies, but are still able to respect, accept and love each other whole-heartedly.

36) When you are still able to be yourselves around each other at any time of the day without putting any effort in it.

37) When his favourite foods are your favourite foods.

38) When his favourite drinks are your favourite drinks too.

39) When you can influence each other over everything else without even putting in an effort to please each other (i.e. blue cheese & sprouting).

40) When you involuntarily immitate each other, and realise that your idiosyncracies have rubbed on each other.

41) When you like the same kind of books, music and movies.

42) When you know that you are a team for life - able to be adventurous together.

43) When both of you can't see yourselves being with anyone else but each other.

44) When both of you know it right down to your bones that things will only get better and better.

45) When both of you can see each other staying together.

46) When both of you can imagine having a family together.

47) When he asks you if you want to have a baby together you say 'YES!' without hesitating, and he's happy to hear it.

50) When both of you know that you will never meet the 'same' each other again if you let this chance of a lifetime go.

51) When both of you feel and see and know that you are meant for each other for the rest of your lives.

52) When both of you understand the importance of God in your lives.

53) When you both believe and understand that you didn't meet each other by chance.

54) When both of you want to pray for each other and live according to God's Will.

55) When you know that God will watch over and bless both of you and let the relationship grow in His Will.

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55 points are not just the end of it. There are many more points to write, and to begin with, we didn't even plan to 'be together' in the first place. It was friendsjip first, and smack out of the blue, cupid strike. Yes, both are taken by surprise, as we weren't looking, weren't expecting - nothing.

When that happened, I knew at that point that there will be no other but him. He's a little 'slow'... but I hope he'll catch up - tee hee hee. Anyway, by now, we have grown and progressed in thoughts and heart. We just know it right down to our bones that the list will continue to grow as the more time we spend together, and the better things will get.

I know he knows too... time will tell us more in regards where we will head off to - God Willing.

Excuse me now, I am going back to my shell and do more praying to God for giving me to him, and him to me - we want God to make both our wishes come true and have it tailored into in His Will. Amen.