The cougar and the cub

Let me air my thoughts from my many observations of late with reference to the subject title. I've come of age where I'm in the cougar category if I choose to be. Cubs are a aplenty, and let me tell you, young blood is fun and refreshing - they're cute, boyish and makes you giggle like a little girl. What more to say is that the cougar holds the reins at all times (I think!).

Seriously, I can't say enough to my cougar gal pals that when you age, so will he. When he's pushing 40s, he's going to get into this Elvis Presley syndrome with a tendency of hip gyrating and gazing at girls with mini skirts. At that same time, you'll be in your mid or late 50s, all veriose-veined and equipped with muscular calves from those 35-40 years of trotting around in stillettos.

Yes, you wouldn't mind the experience, but that's all  but that's all there is to it...an experience leading to an eventual heartache. Meat to fall back on? Hardly, because you're past your marketing time. You're no Zsa Zsa Gabor, Elizabeth Taylor or Demi Moore. So don't compare. In fact, we know how the story ended for these golden girls.

Generally, Women folk long for something that lasts a little longer (no pun intended!). I'm not talking about mere live-the-moment antics, but the semantics and reality of life. Unfortunately the world is made for men. I hate to admit it, but it's true... I've seen wrinkly, pot-bellied bastards have young women bating their eyelids and dropping at their arms... Of course, waiting for the old fart to croak and inherit all their $$. How fair is that? Well, lots of women have the idea that if old men can have young barbies, so can they have their toy boys!

I've seen a few in my lifetime, starting-to-wrinkle aunties having hot, juicy cubs holding their hands. When you delve further, these cubs are just there for a free ride with rich aunties. Oh, sad, sad world.
Wake up, ye mommas and aunties! Temptations will always be aplenty, but use your brain and logic. While he's in your his 20s and you're pushing 40s, there is compatibility from many aspects. Don't make me name them. Don't forget, deep down, you're still wired female, and have deep seated traditional values of happily-ever-after dreams. The younger male and older female thing of large disparity of age difference, it'll never work. So, cougars, if you're just having 'fun', keep it at that level, and don't cry wolf to your girlfriends whe things go pear shape!